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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by star90new, Jun 22, 2018.

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  1. Jun 27, 2018 #21
    star90new

    star90new Bronze IL'ite

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    Age gap .. most of my friends married with age gap of 1 or 2 years.
    Even here in Indus ladies posts i noticed that most couples have just 1 year difference.
    Its good to have less gap , so that even if the wife gets pregnant at 32 , husband will be only 33 .
    In my case if i plan for 32 , my hubby will be 36 plus. Plus more chances for downsyndrome if we try for a second kid after that.Wont the energy start reducing from 50 yrs? When the kid becomes 20, husband will be 56 . (most ppl retire at this age.)

    Yes I agree , first and foremost couple should be responsible.
     
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  2. Jun 28, 2018 #22
    Mishkaa

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    What is your current age? And whats stopping you from having a kid now if you are worried about age.. there is no right or wrong age. As a woman complication arise once u hit 35. So plan before that. And be secure in your own being that no matter your husbands age u are capable to take care of the kid. Dont have to be dependent and he will do what he can..
     
    Mishkaa, Jun 28, 2018
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  3. Jul 14, 2018 #23
    Indeevara

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    You seem to be very much concerned,then go ahead and plan on having a baby soon:relaxed:.. you ‘real life’ begins after that I believe and once u have a kid , u have bigger concerns than these and will b busier too!
    Btw i had my son when i was 28 and hubby was 32. At times i feel we cud ve planned a year ago but in that case we would ve missed our 2 ppl life:D( the carefree life)
     
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