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Financially Screwed....i Am Sure.

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by WannabValerie, Oct 20, 2019.

  1. Laks09

    Laks09 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    This makes up for other things.
    Have you told him? I haven’t told mine you were mostly right about those few things you told me.

    True. @WannabValerie - I hope in time you are able to get back to where you were in your relationship. Letting go is hard but hopefully you will get there.
     
  2. WannabValerie

    WannabValerie Bronze IL'ite

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    Oh Ladies, wonderful posts.. nice ones ...
    My H wont come to classes as he know now he will be bashed professioanlly.

    Now that somebody got me started on Philosophy.. I love it!.

    2 years ago I had a longer trip to India than usual, 6 weeks. My mind was having a ball rinsing and repeating the worse odds since last 3 years... more insecurity more fear more anger. I suffocated yet I stayed in the same spot. Didn't even realise it!. Same time my sensitive cousin joined a job in Oncology ( yup! You guessed it)... 6 months into his job, he could not go on anymore. The kids he saw 6 months ago wern't there anymore... many people just did not woke up suddenly in his hospital, he was desperate why its all like this and what they did to deserve it.

    My sister also came to india to see me and time with me... so we 2 weeks off and did some travel and 'soul searching'. All we relied on was the beautiful mum nature ( not people)... however we ended up with 2 books by people ... People were Ramana Maharshi and Ekhart Tolle. I am not saying we ended up at the right place, only saying we ended up here. Also incidentally my dad had these books but after him they were buried somewhere between all the physics/ chemistry books. So we got intrigued and started into the journey...went a week to Srilanka to learn what exactly was this meditation thing is...

    Spirituality is a way of life, which could do better to us leading to a better world. However we have managed to come so far from it that we lost the trace I think.

    I am not even close to any awareness ... I am still a part of 'practical world' where money ( a tool which can help transform the world to good for good, I have immense respect for it) is being the ONLY tool. I am
    still naive. But these books and the spiritual introduction got me a lead to the reality. However far I go, how ever unconcious I become, I have a hope that I might find a way!. Before that I did not even know I was away from the truth! leave alone a lead to it. I cant do 15 min meditation straight but I feel ok when I do it. Spirituality gave me a bit of control over myself.

    My sister just joined us for fun but she said it was uncanny and yet simple. My cousin, he is still in the same job but with acceptance and a smile on his face ( sometimes he still goes back but he isnt that bad anymore). We went from F grades to a D... not bad hey!

    Its proven that our minds react immensely and positively with spiritual thoughts. I am the living example how just thinking spiritual and realising that you are different to your mind can save you from the spiral negitive thoughts which can eat up your existance!

    Still after this I have these episodes of fear but they are just episodes thankfully. Else I would have lost it ... God these playbacks!:BangHead:

    I am not endorsing anything I am whom am I to endorse a truth anyway.
    Was it boring.:thinking:.. I am sure it was... its that trait of good things isnt it :facepalm:
     
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  3. WannabValerie

    WannabValerie Bronze IL'ite

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    and nemisis... nemisis is a guy... nemisis is a man.... nemisis is a bloke...

    nemisis is brilliant!
     
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    Roar Gold IL'ite

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    Valerie!

    Wow... I did the same journey few years ago too!!... with my cousins too!!... to Srilanka too!!!... 5 yrs ago...but we wernt looking for any solace.. just, you know... random browse... but boy it was beautiful!...we all had different beliefs but it did not make any difference.

    who am I ... Ramana Maharshi I love that book. Ekhart is follower of Maharshi Ramana they are so cool. Its more about yourself than the guru anyway... most of the real gurus dont endorse themselves hehe... 'Dont follow me... because I am lost too' Jiddu Krishnamurthy...

    On a lighter take.. because you are telugu, watch Evade Subramanyam ..
    How cool is your thread!
     
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    WannabValerie Bronze IL'ite

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    Is it Roar!!.. hehe.. confused minds think alike...

    On the beliefs, I am not a religious woman but I believe in God .. my cousin and sister are atheists..I dreaded their logical asks but thru out our western ghats and Srilankan journey they were like 4 yr olds listening to Chandamama story... tamed!...

    We are not guru searches anyway yet Ramana Maharshi intrigues me becuase the guy looked like he could not care less about how big of a guru he could be or how many are actually following... He never cared a damn!... He seems to be closer I thought...

    I watched that movie... faith on tollywood was restored:worship2:
     
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    I think this thread has been wonderful to me.. Thanks all once again.

    Is there a forum head who can close it as I seem to wander off given chances.. hehe.
    Please close this thread forum moderators.

    Ladies, will keep bumping into you elsewhere in the forum...
     

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