Hi ILs, I really need help here.. I am going to get married to my long time boyfriend fiance next year end. And We have graduated now and going to start our career life as well. I also have SIL settled for 12 years i the US with 2 kids. My to be in laws are here to take care of the kids and are bored for 6 months in the US. I am hunting for jobs. But my FIL is not very happy with his son and DIL settling down in US as well. But it has been my dream through out my life to live a US life and have kids and give them the best education here. I am the only child for my parents and they are in India. They are very happy I am living here and are even happy to move here. My fiance also wants to live his life here. But my FIL says that he will be happy if we live in India. He always talks only about his daughter (my to be SIL) that she is the best and even makes his son feel that he can never become as great as her. Now he is telling us to settle in India. Part of me feels that they are old and they need their son and DIL in their old days to help them out. I don't want to commit a sin by leaving my old in laws alone in India also. I feel bad. But at the same time I think why I should sacrifice everything and my whole life and dream for them when they don't respect their son anyways like their daughter. I am also scared that if we move to India only for them then they will again say their daughter and their grandchildren are great and they are superior because they are in US (They have always said great about their grandchildrens' education facility.) He said you have to start from zero now. But my daughter is not so. But it took his daughter 12 years to get established from zero to where she is, then why should we not do it? My FIL is justifying that my daughter settled here because she was adamant. My SIL is very very determined about what she wants. Then why should I give up what I want. I am fighting within myself between my own lifelong dreams and I should not get old people's curse and don't want to commit a sin. I cannot consult with my fiance much coz he usually sticks to whatever I want. SO PLS PLS PLS help me make the right decision!!! Thank u ALL in advance WorkingStudent.