Hubby and I are in a long distance relationship currently. He is in the city only for 2 days. We spend barely 2 or 3 nights together in the week. Of which 2 are post\pre travelling (day spent in travelling, so need rest at night). So we are left with 1 night.I ask him for 1 night to be intimate - but he dozes off to sleep even if he gets up at 10 am that morning and has taken a nap in the afternoon - i can understand hes tired after travelling all week - but come on yaar, all i ask is to compromise on one nights sleep. When i want to be intimate and initiate it and he rejects it and falls asleep , i go in complete self doubt - Does my husband not find me attractive? I end up taunting & berating him for preferring sleep. I also end up crying. But later i feel incredibly GUILTY !! I am totally torn between - maintaining marital relations and keeping hubby happy & healthy. Should i be feeling guilty - or is being intimate necessary ,especially in the first year of marriage?