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Facetime Skype, Weekend Video Calls With In-laws

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Vedhavalli, Sep 16, 2019.

  1. Sangeeta85

    Sangeeta85 Gold IL'ite

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    U have the best answers!!
    True tit for tat .. will definitely try
     
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    :hello:No wonder. That is because earlier in life she had great deal of negative exposure.
    2. At her age perhaps, you are going to become twice or thrice matured as u have now and have been exposed.
    3. Thanks for reading through my views and suggestions.
    4. Any disturbing situation or calls, I have the habit of shifting the line both in office and at home to my (Wo)man's Friday.
    5. They know I am not to be disturbed when and why- better than I.
    Best wishes always.
    Regards.
    God- why Do MILs selfish and act step motherly?
     
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    :hello:Thanks but I prefer ideas and suggestions be at the back of your mind and put into use in a subtle manner so that the other party may not think it is patent practice.
    2. There could be some exigencies. So handle with care.
    3. The fabric of relationship bonding - all remains delicate and fragile for eternity.
    Regards.
    God you had created bestowing all with unique talent but why some Mils abuse or misuse it?
     
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    :hello: Sometimes unspoken word would cause heaviness in the heart.
    2. it is equally true that right words at right moment uttered to the (right) person, would pay rich dividends later.
    God bless.
     
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    Yes I try to plan but I keep planning for ever but never able to answer back bcz they have scared the heck out of me bcz of all the fights for years...
    The worst habit now is I only keep thinking of them what I m going to say all the time
     
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    :hello:Here too I find away from the problem or issue is not going to solve this type of problems. Either confront talk diplomatically and handle situations with tact.
    2. Of course this would come only with exposures and experience gained from others. Idea is not to hurt but protect & preserve oneself .
    3. Thinking about Mil & fil and replies to be given to them - a mental rehearsal will spoil one’s health. Just be ready to cross the bridge as and when you near it!
    Thanks and Regards.
     
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    Thanks!!
    True my mom says the same about saying it then not thinking it now and spoil the day... f
    “course this would come only with exposures and experience gained from others. Idea is not to hurt but protect & preserve oneself .”” This I need to learn
     
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    isnt it a waste of your time and energy??
     
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    yes. very true
     
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  10. Sangeeta85

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    Yes that’s y I said it’s worst thing
     

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