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Extra marital affairs in India

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by anadev16, Dec 29, 2011.

  1. flowerlady

    flowerlady IL Hall of Fame

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    Each immoral act can be justified. A thief can justify why he started stealing, a murderer can justify killing others. Similarly even an EMA can also be justified.
    Some acts are immoral and indecent, breaking marital vows is one of them. Is this so difficult to comprehend??? :spin
    Actually it depends on the environment in which grew up in, if the family values were on the loose (dheela) side then the person will be influenced by them and support such behaviour.
    If a child sees his parents, aunts, uncles having flings or EMAs he is likely to see EMAs as a normal way of life and not abnormal.
    But an EMA is repulsive if he/she has grown up in a decent home .
    At least the people having EMAs should not pass STDs and AIDs to their innocent trusting spouses.
     
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  2. ivlakshmi

    ivlakshmi Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi,
    I feel affairs vary in different degrees.. sexual affair, emotional affair (just chatting normally to share personal problems) and emotional affairs only for sex chat ..
    I know of some lady who just chats but not the sexual content..to share her thoughts with other man as there is no one to hear her..her hubby never cares about her nor give him any time..
    Later it let to a mess though..
    High emotional with sex talk is very immoral..
    thr should not be any communication gap between partners inorder to even avoid emotional affairs
     
  3. SriVidya75

    SriVidya75 Platinum IL'ite

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    emotional affair is much worst isnt it?? why do you marry in first case at all?? if our partner in life doesnt support us emotionally or mentally..then why be with that person and find backside ways to get what we want!!

    basically as per me..affair is affair..emotional or physical....both are the same for me.
     
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  4. AnandForPals

    AnandForPals New IL'ite

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    That is some example!
    Loud but true - WELL SAID.
     
  5. Radhai

    Radhai Platinum IL'ite

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    yep! respect the dogs pls.


    PS:The 4-legged ones may get offended.
     
  6. ppriya182010

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    Wow, are we such confused generation to even ask whether EMA is good or bad?

    GOD SAVE US!
     
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  7. GiJoe

    GiJoe Silver IL'ite

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    When Hollywood and Bollywood make movies like

    Sex and Breakfast
    Metro

    People will get desensitized
     
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    riya123 Gold IL'ite

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    You said you have a happy married life and why do you want us to be judgemental about people having EMAs.
     
  9. niti123

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    I would rather take a straight shot than back stab.

    I rest my case :)
     
  10. Decentguy

    Decentguy New IL'ite

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    Anand for pals

    This thread was dead for more than one year but you gave it a new lease of life. I wonder why?

    Another member Dr.C had a habit of giving life to dead threads. Well he was a doctor, so I could understand his itch. What is your reason?

    By the way -Are you Mr.Jekyll or Mr. Hyde? ( if you know what I mean "guy")
     

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