Everyone Is Special In Their Own Way

padma0604 · Jan 13, 2020

iyerviji said: ↑

People think that the most painful thing in life is losing the one you value.The truth is the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of valuing someone too much & forgetting that
YOU ARE SPECIAL TOO !
Absolute truth! One should not forget to respect oneself! I totally agree with you.

Friendship is such a relationship which we should definitely choose carefully because we reveal our character not only by the company we keep but also by the company we avoid. And once we choose a friend , the relationship should stand all the storms based on the foundation of Trust. Trust till the very end. Either you will end up with a very good lesson or a very good Friend….

How very true!! Very well said viji garu!!

Padma Priya
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iyerviji · Jan 14, 2020

Thyagarajan said: ↑

We Never Know Why We Like Someone More Than Others...Why We Love Someone Without Any Reason...Why We Feel Happy Thinking About Their Presence...Because...Some Feelings Has No Explanation or Definition..
sorry to but in again.
2. I re-read your post and the highlighted part of the post in itself could be expanding if reader attempts relating to his past experience.
3. The standard quote of yours at foot of the post quite befits the central theme.
4. Dr kuruvilla was close to my mom: and to me when between my years 3 to 5. She was behind mother when I was naturally delivered. My mom said separating from her rowing to shifting to Chennai from Mysore was instrumental(!) In my having bouts of fever.
5. Several class & school mates during my academics were close to me that caused parents to get intimate and the friends dad relocated and I lost those friends. Many names still green in my memory.
6. Likewise in college and engineering studies I developed close friendship with many and a major part of them are still in touch with me. Once venkatraman studying geography and Sriraman pursuing geology were close for almost two years that we exchange visits to home and dine almost everyday. No trace of them despite my best effort. But thoughts of them lingering at the back of the mind.
7. Out of my bosom friends all are family friends few passed away recently, yet attraction to such family friendship continues undiminished.
8. There were some bosom friends who if I don't see atleast once in a day, I used to feel miserable.
9. One would always find friendship with some turns durable even after several decades. I have even today have friendships that began in my school in 1954.
Thanks and regards.
God lends succor through our bosom friends.
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Thanks for your lovely feedback. Glad to know about your friends. Iam also in contact with my best friend since 1954. She is a rich person and down to earth. She has helped me a lot during my younger days.