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Everyone Is Special In Their Own Way

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Jan 11, 2020.

  1. iyerviji

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    People think that the most painful thing in life is losing the one you value.The truth is the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of valuing someone too much & forgetting that
    YOU ARE SPECIAL TOO !

    In the present world we move around with virtual relationship more than our blood relationship. We meet so many people in so many places and become part and parcel of their life.Especially people like me who are away from children and grandchildren enjoy with the friends and the children whom we meet.

    Friendship is such a relationship which we should definitely choose carefully because we reveal our character not only by the company we keep but also by the company we avoid. And once we choose a friend , the relationship should stand all the storms based on the foundation of Trust. Trust till the very end. Either you will end up with a very good lesson or a very good Friend….

    We Never Know Why We Like Someone More Than Others...Why We Love Someone Without Any Reason...Why We Feel Happy Thinking About Their Presence...Because...Some Feelings Has No Explanation or Definition..!

    There are some things which we can share only with some persons. We meet so many people in life but we become close only with some. With some its hi and bye. Some give us so much importance and we have a special place in their heart. They miss us if they dont see us for a long time. Some are there who understand us so well and have no complaints about us.
     
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    Special means "better than ordinary." Every human being that has ever lived, or ever will live, is unique. Our life experiences thus far have made us the person that we are today.

    It's important that we take the time to define ourselves in a realistic, expansive way, and that we see clearly when others are trying to define us in their own terms or in relation to what they want us to be.
     
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    Very well said. It's actually difficult to define our self separately without getting influenced by others opinion about us. Still everyone is special and should know their importance in this world.
    Thanks aunty for writing and sharing your thoughts. You are very special for this forum. :worship2:
     
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    Virtual relationship! Does it have any value at all? Isn't it a kind a placebo?
     
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    Very true.Thanks for your lovely feedback
     
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    Thanks dear for your lovely message. Glad I amspecial
     
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    It depends on each one's way of thinking
    Thanks for your feedback
     
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    I have a different take on “being special”; it’s all about ego and self-deception.

    In short, if one has privilege that sets that person apart from their peers, and he/she may have done nothing or very little to get that advantage.

    When a child grows up thinking that he/she is special and believe that he or she can succeed in anything with little effort. Soon enough, this person will figure out that this isn’t true.

    In order to get something, you need to qualify for it; to earn it, requires putting yourself on the line and working hard. It also requires facing yourself and admitting that sometimes you’ll fail and struggle, but you still have room to grow.

    I rather use the word “Unique” than “Special”; each one has unique perspectives and abilities. With being "Special" comes entitlement. The world owes nothing and one has to start working hard to get what they want.

    In today’s world, it is impossible to not be reminded of how somebody, somewhere, is doing something that is much cooler than you, and be reminded of it constantly.

    Being special is nice, but that’s not where our real needs get met. It’s not a sufficient metric for our overall well-being.

    It is just my opinion.
     
  9. Thyagarajan

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    :hello:It is also true that For no reason one establish bond and jell well.
    2. It happens where you all know.
    Regards.
     
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    I concur your opinion on earning things.. however I think entitlement is slightly different from special... special seems a wee bit of positive confidence than entitlement thou... no?
     
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