Dressings of some girls who come to temples

Pls be happy that they are visiting the temples!!

 

Yeah u r true passionate....some girls dresses are really stupid low hip, shorts, minis, atleast while coming to temple should wear decent dress in some temples they dont allow but this has to be restricted in every temple.

 

I agree with dviswa public discipline is must not only girls and boys even buddas come for that while standing in que they are focibly push or fall on girls.

 

First of all, I do not understand why one should look at others while going to a temple. Are we not there to look at the deity and pray? ;-)

It is different if the temple authorities have a dress code and people do not follow it. But God has no dress code for those who are there to pray. And no one has the right to make a judgment about another person's dressing and character by just looking. Not all saree/dhoti-clad people are Buddhas and not all sleeveless/jeans-clad people are "loose."

If guys cannot help staring how is it the fault of the girls? If a guy has truly come to pray and has some self-restraint he should not stare. If such guys go to another country where there are skimpily clad girls in public, will they take the opportunity to "fall on them?" (keep in mind the stricter laws in those countries) When they can behave there why do they find it difficult to behave in temples?

One's devotion and relationship with God is between them and God; what they choose to wear while praying is their business (barring places where there is a stipulated dress code).

 

In a divine place, when you go to pray, why should we look /think at anything but the divine? When you seek peace of mind - we should try to do that rather than get distracted or judge others unnecessarily.

What is this concept of restricting type of clothes only for women? then jeans/ without-shirt for men should be equally banned. Each person has a different criteria for acceptability.
Leaving hair is a person's choice - if you go to North India, there is no issue in leaving hair nor in covering it with a cloth - it is just a matter of perspective - God does not prescribe anything but to submit yourself wholeheartedly to him.

I understand the public display of affection might make you uncomfortable. It being right/wrong is not the question. It is still not in vogue in India especially in Temples.

 

Well said. It is correct.