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do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by sobhas, Jan 20, 2010.

  1. sobhas

    sobhas New IL'ite

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    Dear Friends
    Do we enjoy full freedom, as we use to enjoy before marriage, even after marriage ?
    Would like to have your suggestions and views in this regard.
    Hope you will pour in your ideas here.
     
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  2. archana2008

    archana2008 Gold IL'ite

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    Yes, Infact i enjoy more freedom after marriage than before.:cheers

    I think men loose their freedom after marriage and women gain it :biglaugh
     
  3. sobhas

    sobhas New IL'ite

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    thank you archana
    but i came across some women who complain that they lost their freedom after marriage. is this true?
     
  4. Priya16

    Priya16 IL Hall of Fame

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    My case is opposite.I used to have full freedom at my parents place.But my husband personality and the way he raised is far different from me.I am getting better now but my husband do object in lot of things.Actually he supress other people openions and dominate.
    So this case will be different for each individual.
     
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  5. tuliplady

    tuliplady Gold IL'ite

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    I am one of the lucky one who had freedom before marriage and after marriage also. I havent lived with ILs to say whether they give me enough liberties, but my husband gives and takes a lot of freedom as well. Thats more than enough for me:cheers Freedom to choose what I wear, eat and make friends as per my choice.

    In my opinion, giving freedom only makes people more responsible.
     
  6. Renu1999

    Renu1999 Bronze IL'ite

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    I have lots of freedom after marriage in our house. But when we go to inlaws its different story.
    But I hate the responsibility that comes after marriage . I wish we are kids tension free. I am married for 7 years still finding it very difficult to adjust.....
     
  7. narra

    narra Silver IL'ite

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    i enjoy more freedom after marriage than before. btw i have healthy relationship with inlaws. my parents were strict and my fil always encouraged me to go outside and learn new things. i am so lucky to have family members like that including my dh.
     
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  8. sobhas

    sobhas New IL'ite

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    thank you renu and narra for sharing your views
     
  9. dollysonpari

    dollysonpari Silver IL'ite

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    It all depends on DH n in-laws. In my point of view working women's get bit more freedom compared to home makers.
     
  10. Spiderman1

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    Yes! Unfortunately, yes! :tongue
     

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