Did any of you come across a man accepting / revealing that the problem is with him. I see MIL always asking this to DIL. blames her and tries to get to details from her. Not sure if FIL asks the same to his son. But always blame/pressure/stress is on ladies. She owns up a problem even though her husband has the issue. Husband doesn't open up his mouth. You know stress will be less on a wife , if husband tells his parents the actual problem. In laws will not give trouble the DIL much.