Hello Ladies, Im here on IL after 12 years i think. Long time. Many things changed in my life. Life improved, i started working,kids etc. But just like a fairy tail, good things don't last too long or may be in my case, it just doesn't last that long. Like, the title suggests, is there anyone who has ever been in my situation ? I would like to contact lawyers but I don't want to regret this first step. Yes, google has tonnes of info but I'm mentally exhausted trying to constantly do things that will the marriage alive. To this date, i have not contacted any divorce lawyers but really want to as i cannot take it any more. Thank you all!