Hi Ladies, I and my husband are dreamed for our individual home from start of our marriage life(9th year now). So finally our 4 years search ends at some point in last week. we found our dream independant house in comfortable location to office & school, specially which will come under our budget. I thought we are going to relaxing very soon with this. My husband and I are solo contributors of this house. Still final works are going on from builder side. But now new problem has started. we are living with inlaws in our own apartment from 8rs. i took care interior before they came. later there no much chance to do customization because it is apartment. but until now i bared my FIL changes at home because those are removable and i am not at all intrested to current apartment decoration because i didnt get feeling that it was my own due to various reasons. coming to our next house i am kind of got grip on my husband with several reasons, so he is moving ahead with my push and neglecting my FIL influence. 1. First major problem is FIL having vasthu madness. So he bluntly opposed that villa at starting itself. but still we moved ahead because i and my husband dont care vasthu much if that is stoping our dreams home with in our limited budget. 2. Now he started to do possible vasthu remedies which are irritating me a lot. for example we loved a big sized 2 trees in front of our villa much due to its coolness and comfort during summer. but my FIL asking to cut those due to vasthu issue. it will take 5 more years to bring up tree to such height. i am like inside. but diplomatically said "It is easy to cut, but hard to raise" we will get 40 degrees heat in summer. those trees only our life savers by that time" and left that room. 3. Need to add extra steps unnecessarily to satisfy vasthu which may dangerous to my small kids and to every one at main entrance. 4. we have bit open space which i am planning to put garden, but he is planning to cover it with cement. like this in every case he is irritating me a lot. He is 70 yr and i am 30 yrs. I knew he is also going to live in that house. but what about me? when i will get chance to complete my dreams for which i am earning. i dont want to involve my husband. because he is also frustrating with his dad but not able to oppose him like me in diplomatic way. because he is sravana kumara right... so escaping from his dad. now i am afraid because dont know how many problems my FIL is going to introduce like this in my new house? it will take minimum 2 yr to solve all kids of interiors and problems there. but because we neglected his vasthu belief, he seems to be going to create problems and may say "due to vasthu issue only we re getting conflicts now so on...." i am adjusting and ignoring inlaws action. but now i felt that house should be as per my wish because my next 30-40 yr life is there. ma be they raise vasthu issue for every problem occur in that ouse. My dad also warned about me after observing my FIL behaviour. dear ladies....how long i should face this diplomatic battle. i am going to depress or blast which are unhealthy to my life seems to be.