How old are you? Pls tell me. U are so sensitive and ur confidence levels are very low. Pls do not continue with this mindset. Life will always have ups and downs. U have to have some matured mind to get adjusted with the current situation. Please answer my Qs. If my way of advice is wrong iam sorry. because u are the person who is undergoing and anyone can only advice accordingly. 1. Is ur H workaholic? 2. Is ur H alcoholic? 3. Does ur H spends his full time in the office? 4. Does ur H always takes food from outside? 5. Does ur H has the habit of hanging around ladies? 6. Does ur H anytime physically abused u? If yes for the 1st Q he can be changed. If Yes for the 2nd question, u have to take serious steps to change him to come out of this. If yes for the third question, that can be changed. If yes for the 4th question, that too can be changed. If yes for the fifth question, u should think about living away from ur H. If yes for the 6th Q, again u should think about living away from ur H. Why iam asking this is i would like to know ur problem levels. do not waste ur life thinking about the ppl around and what they say about ur employment. brush aside and move forward. From Qs 1 to 4, u can change. It needs ur patience and determination to change ur H. It depends on you and how u handle ur way of life and ur thought process. Nothing is easy in life. i have read many of ur threads and ur problem is ur low CONFIDENCE level. U can reach ur mans heart through cooking.