Child Beating Badly

She is learning the beating part in her daycare.

Kids learn actions very fast by observing things that happens to them or around them. So in order to protect ur daughter from being beaten u can talk ur concerns to day care teacher.
To stop her from beating ,u need to firmly keep on telling it is not correct to beat any one and telling stories on good habits etc. Always tell her she is a good girl and good girls will not beat others.

 

Everytime she raises her hand to beat,hold her hand firmly and in a calm and firm voice tell her ' no,you will not hit '. Or" no, it not okay to hit "
....every single time.
If she cries...let her. She will realise it won't get her attention.

Don't sulk or give silent treatment or try to punish.
She is too young to understand any of that.


Talk about this with the person who is taking care of her group in day care. She may be hitting back if she is getting hit.

 

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If she raises her hand to beat hold her hand firmly and be calm if you loose your temper then hell will break loose. Tell her you are not going to tolerate this kind of nonsense behaviour and continue this kind of strictness till she understands her mamma is serious and will have consequences. If she is still adamant on beatingn leave her in a room alone and keep a watch. Let her calm down and then explain. And these kinds of behaviour are learnt in daycare and playschool. If possible talk to her teacher or change her playschool

 

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Try reading her stories and peoms on good habits she will learn fast

 

never use no frequently. i feel that the no makes them test the boundary again. given that your dd is hyperactive maybe you should try keeping away pbjects that could hurt around her and going away and crying is no-no. she should know that it hurts you and you feel pain.
maybe your not being firm with her about her hitting has led to her thinking it is right to do or she thinks of it as a game. talk to the caretaker and enlist their help to divert her from this
divert her saying that you think she is going to play with that. make it playful and more about right and wrong rather than her being good or bad. devise a game of music or sounds with the object she tries to use on you. i would rather make it playful music session and laughing cuddling session with the katori and spoon rather than allowing her to hit.
and aometimes hitting is not done with the intention of hurting anyone, it is a venting of her anger or frustration. maybe you need to address that too..

 

Ur daughter is very cutie and active child. Jumping , somersaulting etc shows she is interested in sports and outdoor activities. If the climate is good outside with no heavy winter, u can take her to parks or any play area often .Let her run around and play . .

 

@Sweety2016 i understand what you mean. somersaults and balancing are some developments of the 15-24 months age i think be careful. i have a hyperactive son and he could balance himself on a rolling ball as a 2 yr old and stand on his toe on a upturned kid tumbler the small one that we use to give kids water. everytime he did that i had my heart jump a x times.

so my only suggestion is be careful wih her. and think ahead of her..