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Changes We (dil's) Made @ In-laws Home

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by charanya147, Jul 9, 2016.

  1. charanya147

    charanya147 Silver IL'ite

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    Hi DIL's,
    Let us discuss about the changes that we made at in law's house...... It may be in food, traditions, lifestyle, dresses, religious beliefs, parenting style, etc... *in my in law's house, they will eat rice food all the time...... They never cook any tiffin items....... They never felt bored in eating the same over and over again..... But I slowly changed the food style.... Now it's exclusively no rice for dinner.

    * they never allowed me to trim my eyebrows...... But now my MIL itself cutting her hair.........

    So many changes that that we made unknowingly at in law's house...... Which shows our priority at the house..... Let us discuss about that..... So that we can have fun here..... Let us forget about all the issues that happens....... Just write about how we tuned the house for our convenience...... :cheer::hello:
     
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    A way of taking back control... I like it:clap2:
     
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    Changes I made:
    -making thicker dahi & less watery kheers
    -giving food while fresh to maids
    -throwing away fungified pickles instead of removing top & forcing everyone to eat
    -making little extra rice so everyone eats well instead of making less rice & people going hungry
    .... :confundio1::thinking:
    This is is all I can think of. Doesn't seem to be much:unamused:
    I feel sad... I'm going to lie down...
     
  4. charanya147

    charanya147 Silver IL'ite

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    Thank you songbird......... Here at my in law's house it's just opposite they make food for 5 when the actual persons are only two
     
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    Not waking up at 5:30am and most important letting FIL know that his kids and all are RESPONSIBLE adults and can make their own decisions. They are good people so did not have to fight with them about it just they never knew anything better.
     
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    charanya147 Silver IL'ite

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    @googleearth thank you...... Yes inlaws expect us to be more matured, but treat their wards as kids... That too in front of us....... We should not follow our parents ideas after marriage but makes their son and daughter to listen to them......
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    :)

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    Best post ever! :D
     
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    I was actually sad. Now, I'm better, after reading all your reactions :blush:.

    Is it because I can't influence people or they are not easily swayed? Hmmm.
     
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    Even though they likes our actions and suggestions they pretend to be unaware (doesn't want to give credit to dil)..... Because of their EGO.......
     
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