Hi ILs, I hv tremendously benefitted from this website...I again need your help! here is my problem: I hv been very happily married for more than 3 yrs n have a baby now. My husband loves me like mad..and is a very soft person..We are in the US and My inlaws had come to help with the baby.They are really nice ppl and were really nice to me... ofcourse there were minor irritations on both sides( MIL and me)...then one day, i end up having a big fight with my inlaws and my hubby is really upset as they r old and it was no fault of theirs.. i totally admit it was my mistake and created a fight cos of my arrogance..then, i apologised and things were back to a pretty normal state..my hubby was normal again..the,i went to india while my inlwas were still here..something totally changed.. Now being back here, my life has totally turned upside down. He has stopped talking to me, he just cannot stand my face now...keeps calling me and my parents names..always tries to pick fights with me..if i try to talk to him, he threatens to slap me and ditch me forever. I am a home maker and do not have any outside interaction..i depend on him for everything... I cannot believe its the same person..we wud do everything together, watch movies, play games, have had a great time..we wud do everything together..we wud miss eachother if we did not speak for 1 hour..we loved each other from the bottom of our hearts.. he wud not hurt a fly or use a bad word..such a person has turned into a monster.. i am repenting every second now, for that blunder of mine! can u plz analyse this situation for me? Can a person's basic/ inherent nature change? The reason I am asking is that, I am 100% positive that he is a very nice person inside..can i expect to get my old hubby back? I am ready to do anything for him..