Hey guys, Im 27 yrs old and my parents have been searching alliances for me.Here's what i want to know. 1.Do u talk with the guys before u say OK? I mean there is not a lot u can ask him and get to know in the few days .Or do u guys just say OK after seeing his pic? Meeting is out of question for me.Were ur parents OK with talking with prospective grooms over phone or chatting before telling yes and were they OK if u told "no i dont like the guy".My mum is so orthodox that she thinks i have to say YES before i can talk with the guy.Is that kinda normal? 2.Though i spend a most of my life in India im a U.S Citizen so how do u know if a person is not marrying u just to come here? 3.So far i have just chatted only with one guy and he did not answer like the questions i asked.What do u take from that and moreover he said OK just by lookin at my picture. 4.What if I like a guy and the horoscope dosent match ,though my parents never got married based on horoscope they insist that i do? 5.Are u guys glad that u picked the person u married? Sometimes i just fell like I dont know what I'm getting into:hide:.I would appreciate ur input.TIA!!!