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    Please see previous post for reference, How To Apologize Without Using Words

    I decided to purchase an Entenmann's cake she likes and keep in my my closet. When opportunity strikes I will place the cake and a new painting in my Mom's room.

    I.am.scared

    What if she screams and gets angry
    What if she throws the cake and the painting

    I.am.so.scared

    But I just got to try ........ at least for my piece of mind



    Will keep you posted.
     
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    I don't think she screams or get angry because she is mom. All the best CE!
     
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    Well, there is a long long history ....... I just wish to be the best I can be.

    Thank you for your encouragement!
     
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    Give her the cake,.
    If she throws it away,you should never try to patch with her again
    Best wishes
     
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    Thank you :)

    Don't you think

    is a bit extreme?
     
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    No. You are already bearing too much in life.Taking care of parents health and working.
    she is torturing you daily.
    You could get mentally sick if this continues.
    your mom is not a disabled person.
    she needs to understand that you cannot put up with her tantrums daily.
     
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    Ok, ok, very well then, I shall keep that in mind.
     
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    Sorry,if I sound harsh. But I do know your history with your mom.
    If her behavior is stemming from her previously endured abuse , will she be ready for some treatment or counseling
     
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    What are you doing? Stop. God, This is so hard to read. Please... stop. What you need is an intervention but I don’t know how to do that.

    Don’t do the cake. You already have enough traumatic in your past. Why add to that? Stop being a glutton for punishment
     
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    The situation in your home is not your fault. It is common for children of dysfunction marriages to blame themselves but this situation predates your entry. Stop blaming yourself
     
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