Balika vadhu

Balika Vadhu


Pratyusha the heroine who shot to fame with this serial has committed suicide by hanging. Her boyfriend and live in partner RR Singh is under questioning.


She was just 24. What a sad end. I did not see even one episode of this serial, as I don’t watch serials but my bhabhis , maid, neighbours all watch it, and this was their favourite one.


She was living in with her boyfriend. And it seems their parents did not mind the live in, so I guess they were pretty modern in their thoughts. I was not aware that in Mumbai, the landlords give flats on rent to unmarried couples.


She was out of work, so was he, and financial position was tight. Seems she had to pay an installment of 5000 per month for a car, which she defaulted and goons came to collect, which scared her. And her livein was also in touch with his past girlfriend who came home last month, which upset her.And she too had an ex, from whom she had split, and her current bf used to taunt her about that too.


So they say, all these factors, the financial, the taunts, and the reappearance of the ex girlfriend of the current boyfriend, made her take this extreme step.


I don’t agree to steps like suicide.i still maintain that stand, and the last time I was criticized for blaming Robin Williams for his suicide.


In this case of BV female, fame must have gone to her head, and now she cant get used to life without fame, as public memory is short. And with rents to pay for the flat, which must be 75000 at least, the clothes car installments, and lifestyle, and with no income coming, of her or her bf, and with the exgirlfriends coming in from nowhere, and getting used to the lavish lifestyle, but with no money to pay for, this is what she thought would bring an end to her misery.


But this is cowardly.We must learn to face life , which gives u the high and the low. I have been taught by my parents to fight it out in life, and not commit suicide. We have made big adjustments in life. I started out as an exporter, flying abroad, and in india, then that went for a toss, then it was back to trains, and coolers, and a modest car.


Inviations to marriages stopped coming, and when friends called to ask if I am coming with them for a wedding, I had to tell them that I have not been invited. Yes it hurt, the downgrading of lifestyle, and low esteem in the eyes of people, but I always believed, that what I think of myself matters more than what others think of me.And to tell u the truth, I love myself one hell of a lot. So to hell with the world.


And then after a decade the cycle turned, and once again I was successful, and was again invited to weddings, to which I convientently avoided, for I knew the invitees were respecting my status and money, rather than me.


Pratyusha, was still living in that dream world, and was disappointed with life. What she should have done, is thrown out her bf, made more contacts in the film line, accept secondary roles, while waiting for the big ones, and cut down on her expenses, and expectations.Second innings are always there, remember Amitabh Bachan, and later Arshad Warsi from hero to sidekick in munnabhai, and being more popular than before. These are examples to emulate, of people who have risen from the ashes, to rule once again.


There is more to life , its just that we need to be patients at times. Even a Ferrari has to have patience at the red signal, knowing it will soon turn green, when it can race ahead . But till then it has to be still, and have autorickshaws, cyclists, and ordinary vehicles as company.


A fine life wasted, which was avoidable.


KAMAL MAHTANI



A man visits a mental hospital. He sees a patient with torn clothes & unkempt hair shouting "sandhya !! Sandhya !!"

he asks the assistant about the reason for his behavior. Asst says the patient used to love a girl called sandhya but couldn't marry her. So he became mad.

The man visits the next ward. There also he sees another patient with torn clothes & unkempt hair shouting

"sandhya !! Sandhya!!"

The man looks at the assistant.
The assistant says "This one married sandhya "



No father has ever explained the importance of Studies in such a awesome way to his son


"With every wrong answer that you write in your exam paper

your future honeymoon shifts from Switzerland to Thailand to Goa to Ooty to Pulian Thopu to Hotel Sangeetha or Relative's House".....



This year is the year of ....

Aaliya....
Maaliya....
&
Kaaliya....(West Indies)


It was just like exam:

We prepared for Gayle..


And


Simmons came out of syllabus






Apne color tv bech do OLX pe.... Final match waise bhi black & white hoga....



England& west indies



Joe once lived on a quiet rural highway but as time went by, the traffic slowly built up and eventually got so heavy and so fast that his free range chickens were being run over, at a rate of three to six a week.


So Farmer Joe called the local police station to complain, "You've got to do something about all these people driving so fast and killing all my chickens," he said to the local police officer. "What do you want me to do?" asked the policeman.



"I don't care, just do something about those crazy drivers!" So the next day the policeman had the Council erect a sign that said:


'SCHOOL CROSSING'. Three days later Farmer Joe called the policeman and said, "You've still got to do something about these drivers. The ‘school crossing' sign seems to make them go even faster!"

So again, they put up a new sign:


'SLOW: CHILDREN AT PLAY'. That really sped them up. So Farmer Joe called and said, "Your signs are no good. Can I put up my own sign?"

In order to get Farmer Joe off his back said "Sure. Put up your own sign."



The phone calls to the Police Station stopped, but curiosity got the better of the Officer, so he called Farmer Joe, “How’s the problem with the speeding drivers. did you put up your sign?"

"Oh, I sure did and not one chicken has been killed."



The policeman was really curious and thought he'd better go out and take a look at the sign. He also thought the sign might be something the Police could use elsewhere, to slow drivers down . . . So he drove out to Farmer Joe's house.

His jaw dropped the moment he saw the sign.

'NUDIST COLONY'


'Slow down and watch for chicks!