Going to work is not only to gain financial stability it helps you take your mind off of the problem and focus on something else . You get to enjoy benefits to adult company outside your family . You will breath fresh air . You will gain confidence. Read @BhumiBabe post . That is the truth . He is using your childcare situation to manipulate you . If he couldn’t afford to buy proper clothes for you who bought three tickets to India ? Why did you even accompany him ? See if you work you could have avoided the trip . Your daughter is old enough to go to preschool. Just focus on next step in your life .