Arranged Marriage First Meeting

The guy sounds like a total catch ! What is she waiting for ?! NOT !

Propositioning for sex on the first date is not acceptable even in liberal western societies. Let alone an arranged marriage set-up where it is 2 strangers introduced in a family setting to get to know each other (with their clothes on - to begin with atleast).

Even setting aside the morality issue, it is a complete put off to be "told" and not "asked" by a man about sexy-time over the weekends they meet. Weird.

 

That's not acceptable comment from a guy at first meeting.

 

It is very unrealistic to expect to hear the honest-truth about this guy from strangers who neither know the guy, nor the woman, nor witnessed the conversation. These questions are best put forward to the woman herself or someone who knows the guy. You might as well toss a coin rather than ask total strangers on the internet to predict this guy's character

 

Why does she need to take that risk? What if he denies by saying that he was misheard/misinterpreted/just for fun etc

 

I think your colleague should setup second, third meeting before deciding. It is unexpected that someone would make such a comment during the first meeting but just like us, does anyone train men as to what to discuss in the first meeting? So it may just that he said it in jest or didn't realize the implication then.

I don't think just this comment disqualifies him for at least another opportunity to understand him.

 

Not sure but I think he may not have even realized/ thinking before saying this, must have been just a casual reference. At the first meeting the females get advises on all do's and don'ts. Do guys get those suggestion I don't know. If he said that unknowingly, then most probably he must knocking his head on the wall for that, just like we have regrets after such meet ups. Ask your friend to meet up again, get a clarification from him.