1) inlaws..they will come and settle down with us. 2) I have an option to go to a job in us even in 50's with less exp.India no chance.I am not in IT.I worked as an admin. 3) kids education. 4)gossiping.. 5)day to day life.wha if it gets lonely or boring since I will be a homemaker?Main reason why I wan to R2i. the other reasons r also ok but my mominlaw is terrible.she is so rude and discouraging.she is so negative about me and how can I live with such a toxic person for ever?she has insulted my family,my looks,my kids,husband,home,food etc.how can I take care of her?in us atleast,i can escape and go for a job.so I do not have to be around her 24/7..but in India,it will be terrible to be around her all day.. that is the MAIN reason.is it valid?how to get over this?