Anyone There Separated Due To Intimacy Issues?

I think insecurity is driving you .. i wud ask the same question as to why u went for a second child if u felt there was less intimacy. Children are your priority once they are in this world.. and trust me finding a partner who would accept you with 2 kids is gonna be a very frustrating effort. give some time till the baby arrives and find some means to occupy yourselves... good luck!