Hi All, I'm Saipriya. A new member of the IndusLadies community. I'm an unmarried working women. I'm very much devoted towards thayar. I attended the Andal ThiruKalyana Utsavam at a temple in Mylapore recently. Once the andal kalyanam was over the ladies you were gathered there was given bLouse bit, manjal saradu and manjal kelangu. When it was my turn I received a black blouse bit and the thali saradu slipped of my hand. My heart was literally broken when this happened at the temple. I felt it was so inauspicious. Is there any reason behind this happening. Please can someone suggest if there is any pariharam to overcome the bad effects of the happening. I really felt very bad when I was the only one to receive a black blouse bit out of the whole crowd and saradu slipped off as well. Please advise. Kind Regards Sai