Let me phrase it this way... You are married, the other guy likes you a lot. As much as he likes, you too like him. You reciprocate to what he says for you. If he is mad at you, then it seems you are equally mad at him. It is a two way journey. One can't keep on continuing this madness, when the other is not interested. It seems you are interested in him, you are attracted towards him, and you have fallen for him. He in return uses your madness over him, and tries his best to advance further. Today he asks you to meet in a temple, tomorrow may be in a hotel. Today he speaks with you about a dream kiss, and tomorrow may be a real kiss. The way he advances is mesmerizing. In fact, a teen girl would have figured out what is he doing. But you, as a married woman with a child failed to understand what he is upto. Or you are pretending to be that innocent, so that you can escape the blames. Dear... I did not read your older posts. But apparently, you have some marital problems. But this is not the way to handle it. Although I understand you must be deprived from physical and emotional needs in your marriage, and which are utmost priorities to keep a marriage alive. A starving person would not think about morals and manners when he/she is offered some food. He/she would not even think about the quality of the food or its side effects. But, eating a poisonous food for hunger is not right.