OP, These are wise words. From now on, what ever you feelings about your mom and sister's attitude towards you, communicate it directly as soon as they come. You have taken care of your family enough. Now concentrate on you and your family. Because when there is a need, your mom and sisters might not come forward for you or your kids and husband. Don't be emotionally dependent on your mom and sisters, if they didn't give gift, you cannot make them give. and do not worry too much thinking about this. Yes, They are family and you cannot change that. But please find the ways for you to be happy even if they ignore you or dont do anything for you. In a way, we all are alone in this world. Forgive and forget, because nothing stays forever.