Dear ILites, I have been in the US for 2.5 yrs. I used to drive in India & an accident took a big toll on my mental stability to drive. I have not been driving here in the US. We could not afford a second car back in 2015 & DH was ok to pick/drop me from work. This has been going on since 2yrs. Since last yr he has been insisting me on getting a license so we could look for second car option. I could get back to driving & it took sometime for me mentally be ready to drive however every time I drive with him, we end up fighting or I end up being upset with his rude comments. I know this is normal btw every couple. I took a few classes from an instructor, gave the test but could not clear the road test. He was just not supportive, he is a perfectionist and expects the same from others too. He was upset over the time & money spent for a failed test. This was a year ago. I agree I should have pursued driving more seriously/practiced & tried again. But with a hectic job, household chores and everything I just could not go back to driving. Now DH blames me for all his failures at work & otherwise since he spends time to pick/drop me (an hr approx a day with pick up & drop). He has a hectic job too. I am 18 weeks pregnant, with extreme nausea & everything else possibly pregnancy could bring. We are still not certain of buying another car since we have a new home closing in Dec & with baby in March. Our finances might not allow a second car until end of next year. These days he has become extremely bitter, our mornings are not pleasant as he is cribbing over everything & ultimately everything comes down to me & me not driving. I am already dealing with too much emotional chaos within myself with pregnancy, no friends, no family here or back home, absolute zero emotional support from in laws. With my mood flows & physical struggle it is getting harder to deal with him. I think I should not be forced to drive until we are sure of getting a second car. Am I expecting too much from him? He does help in chores at home when asked. Otherwise he is a caring husband. Do you think I should just get my license irrespective of getting the second car? I am not confident yet on my driving. If I want to get my license I may have to get more classes and try again after a year almost. NOTE: I have a learners permit expiring Jan 2019. All your thoughts are appreciated. Thanks!