Always trying to wipe out my husband's money

we have come in for an onsite assignment for my husband. I left my job and i am pregnant now.
Everytime they come in for a video chat asks my husband with a great smile how much are you going to give as money?
DIL - I have a big purchase list when you are back to india
SIL - Expecting to do poonal function for her son so that he will be able to spend a lot now. Given a list to purchase for her
MIL - She doesnt know yet but aiming for gold ornaments.

Already my husband has transferred more than 1 lakh to DIL and still wants to give 1 lakh when he meets him. My husband himself is ready to give so much and they are asking more that that.

I dont know how to talk about all these. My husband is giving fyi to me about all this giving and expects no answer from me except 'OK'. I do it because i dont want to strain at this stage(2 months pregnant).

now SIL - i will give my son's old clothes toys to you. you can use them.

These are all making me feel really afraid about future.

 

I have tried talking to him. But no use. He will start shouting to close my mouth. We lost one baby in 2011 because I unknowingly reacted to my MIL's words.
I dont want to do it this time. After 2 years i conceived after we came away from them. Still they are torturing through video chats.

Any other way to indirectly make him understand the value of hard earned money?

 

This is good. I had a chat just like the way you have told. I think he got my message. Ididnt want to keep it for another day because I dont want to hurt the child inside me.