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advice needed-father in law(expired) b'day

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  1. Dec 26, 2011 #1
    bhumi1231

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    hi today is My father in law b'day ....who is no more..what shd i do to make my hubby feel good too
     
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  2. Dec 26, 2011 #2
    lavii

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    Bhumi,I may be wrong but JMO..if you want to do anything please do so that your FIL soul RIP..Not to get a good impression from husband..Sorry if you felt offended but thats what i belive..And personally on my dads Birthday or death anniversary i go to orphanage nearby and give them food clothes or anything they need...Last year i sponsered for 1 childs education..You can do annadan in a nearby temple..
     
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    bhumi1231

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    hey i think u dint understood me well...i dint knoew his father...as i got married when he wasno more..to my husb feel good def matters after all he was his father...and he shd also feel tht i also wanna do something?...someone told me not to get sweets ,,its not good hence i asked here.thnx for orphanage idea:bowdown
     
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    Bhumi,

    It is very nice of you to want to make your husband feel better on what is undoubtedly a very sad day for him and filled with memories of happier days. One way would be to honour your fils memory by hosting a lunch and calling all the relatives. Or together you can do an activitiy that was dear to your fil during his life. Or both of you can make a donation to a cause or charity that was dear to him is also a good idea
     
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    Why don't you ask your DH what the FIL favorite foods were and have a dinner of remembrance for him.
     
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    You can go along with your DH and gift some food at an orphanage. Find a photo of your FIL and secretly give it for printing in a big size and you can include your DH , yourself and MIL in that photo too. Present him. He might feel happy.
     
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