Hi My father is a very egoistic person and poor at financial management . He is retired last year and has some savings which is now in FD. I told me parents to stay at apartment in my and husbands name after retirement because they still not have a place of their own and I am their only child . Now I came to US on H4 I want them to invest in some land or house but they are not taking active interest in finding anything. My husband already doesn’t think very highly of my dad but has never shown anything to them. I want dad to gain some respect by buying something of his own . He always expects me to help and doesn’t take initiative.I am not working currently but I am willing to help them with my gold (I paid for it during my wedding). If I say something to my dad about this I am afraid he will be offended like you don’t stay at my place . My apartment is in a prime location and I can easily get very good rent for it which I can pay to the loan for it now that I am not working and help my husband . This is giving me sleepless nights . How can I talk to them without offending them . Please help with some inputs.My husband has never told me but I feel my parents should step up here because I am not working.