Behind every successful man there is a woman. How true this is. Actually both are equally important. But a woman has more will power and can adjust and face any kind of situation. A man without a woman in his life is incomplete and vice versa and more for woman , because she is called only woman means she and man become woman. In this word "woman" also she is behind him. Some men cant do without their wives. For each and everything they want their wife and they become part of their lives. These men who depend on their wives for everything are not able to lead their life after she is no more. They miss her so much. Noone can replace her in his life. So if the children are young also he does not go for a second marriage and that time he feels more for her and he somehow with her good wishes from above is able to take care of his children and bring them up in a nice way A woman plays so many roles in her life in which the role of a mother is the most important. Without the mother the children are at a loss. Some men as they are not able to look after their kids give the child for adoption. If the child is lucky she gets good parents who look after her more than her own parents. So she does not miss her own parents. The most important stage in a couple's life is after they cross sixty. That time they need each other and that time also the woman only plays the important role. She is there to look after her husband, give him food in time , look after him when he is not well. In old age she is all in all for her husband. A woman's life changes after she is married. She has to change herself according to her in law's , otherwise they are not happy. She has to follow their customs . Some women are simple and adjustable and they are ready to follow everything without uttering a word. In in law's house if a woman does not know anything when she is newly married then she is always treated as if she does not know anything. Even though she must be elder to her sisters in law they think only they know eveything. After she becomes old also she is treated the same way. At that time the woman requires lot of patience to listen to them. At that time only there is misunderstanding in the family. Some woman think why to simply have problems in her family so they keep quiet and bear anything. [SIZE=-1]Most women, I think, though they may complain a little about this, would agree that meeting the needs of others is not a real burden; it is what makes life worth living. It is probably the deepest satisfaction a woman has.[/SIZE] [SIZE=-1]ELEANOR ROOSEVELT, You Learn by [/SIZE]
Women, we need so many hats to wear. Daughter, sister, dil, sister in law and mother and the most important hat is "Wife". When she comes to her husband's house, she is forced to adjust to the new way without uttering a word. ( there is nice write up about it by our sister Satchi) and her DH also expects her to do what his mother wants. Time has changed. Now woman's role has changed too. They become very aggressive and demand too much form others. If you want your marriage to work well, we need to adjust and learn to be civil to each other. Yes Viji, when we cross 60, then we ( womna nd man) need each other more. Men depends on their wife a lot and show it, women enjoy thier position that time. i feel that time the love grows stronger. They forget their silly fights and misunderstanding form the past, take care of each other. Since our society does not encourage men to show their affection when they were young. When they get older get, they show more affection towards their partners. I have seen it with the lots of older couple. Nice sight.
CL dear hilarious reply . Yes dear after marriage there is so much expectations from her. . Time has changed. Now woman's role has changed too. They become very aggressive and demand too much form others. True . Thanks for sharing your views
