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A terrible experience!

Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by SmitaMatthew, Dec 10, 2012.

  1. rosenav

    rosenav Silver IL'ite

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    If you were raised in USA or Europe I would understand your views of getting to keep your baby and your so called terrible experience , but you are frm India hopefully grew up here, you know you should be married to have a child according to our culture and you are very well aware that you can't get pregnate without being married and a very Big deal in India.

    And still you had unprotected sex ..got Pregnate and now blame your parents for the abortion. Grow up and take responsibility for your action.

    If you were just 4weeks docs just give you pills to terminate the fetus ...I don't think you hav to have any scares for that.

    Please use proper birth control next time... Mini pills are not magic pills.
     
  2. RiddhimaT

    RiddhimaT Platinum IL'ite

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    [Blemishes on belly due to abortion? Hmmm...

    And your profile shows Relationship Status as "Married" , not Single.]

    Good Catch Rihana...but guys even the docs say that all the precautions are only 97% safe...there is still a possibility of 3%...how and why don't ask me ;D

    Whatever happened has happened...Just one thing, was pre-poning your marriage date not considered?
     
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  3. skalluri

    skalluri Gold IL'ite

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    whatever happened is happened. sometimes things are not in our control. Cheer up and enjoy the moments of marriage preparations and marriage and dont spoil your mood, let it go. it is a lesson in life. Enjoy your marriage girl!
     
  4. Rihana

    Rihana IL Hall of Fame

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    From what I've read about abortions, I couldn't understand how in OP's case it caused "blemishes on belly." They waited so long that it was a hysterotomy abortion (involving abdominal incision, used if needed between 12th and 24th week of pregnancy) ?

    And a doctor said:
    " after marriage in case we have sex without protection and are not planning for a baby then having an emergence contraceptive pill will cause no harm. However it should be taken on “once-in-a-while” basis. "​

    Something doesn't add up. Not being Sherlock Holmes, but not nice to take readers for a ride. JMO.
     
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  5. Radhai

    Radhai Platinum IL'ite

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    There were 3 ants standing in a line.
    1st ant said "there are 2 ants behind me"
    2nd said, "there is one ant behind me"
    3rd one said "there are 2 ants behind me!"

    how? :)
     
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  6. tashidelek2002

    tashidelek2002 IL Hall of Fame

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    Rihanna:
    I also second your cynicism about this post. First trimester abortions are suction curettage (a D&C) and when that can no longer be performed then they induce labor and you essentially deliver the foetus. Both procedures have no incision. Even if they for some really strange reason did a cesarian (which I have absolutely NEVER heard of in this type of instance) the incision is now done as bikini line incision and I don't think that lehenga is going to be that low.

    My life has way enough drama without this type of posting.
     
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  7. Rihana

    Rihana IL Hall of Fame

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    The third ant is a rebel and walks backward? :)
     
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  8. MaritalBliss

    MaritalBliss Platinum IL'ite

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    The ants were in a circle line..
     
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  9. Naksh

    Naksh Platinum IL'ite

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    Third ant is lying :biggrin2:..........u all! :biglaugh<SHAKE head>
     
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  10. justanothergirl

    justanothergirl IL Hall of Fame

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    Naksh Saar :bowdown
     
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