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- A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with same person

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  1. iyerviji

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    One request to the Moderators

    If the post is not good please delete the same because I feel hurt if I get negative comments. But still I wanted to post this from my experience


    Mydaughter had posted this in whatsapp and it made me write about married life, how tomake our married life happy. I know there will be many controversies because my thinking might be different as I am from the olden times but also of the present age as I have seen life and also as a working women learnt so many things. I am writing from my experiences as a wife, as a mother

    My daughter had posted this quote and written about a letter of a mother to her son. So thought of sharing my views also

    A single moment of misunderstanding is very dangerous because within minutes it makes us forget hundred lovable moments spent together

    For a happy married life we need our husband support always and also our in law's support. Sometimes we may not get our in law's support those times if we have husband's suppor then we are able to carry on our life and not get disappointed.

    A mother in law becomes mother in law after being a wife and mother. So she should know the difficulties face by a wife. She should be a good support to her daughter in law and if the son makes a mistake she should correct him. Whatever mistake she does he should not tell about it in front of everyone which will affect her and make her get angry on her husband.

    All are not experts in everything , we dont learn anything when we come to this world. By experience only we learn everything. For some people cooking comes very easily even though they have not tried in the past. But for some they dont know the basic things and also they dont have the courage and because of their nervousness they are not able to cook perfect. Thosewho are expert in cooking in the family instead of teaching them and encouraging them they find out the faults which makes the person cooking disappointed and their love becomes less for that person. Some are bold and because they have pointed out their mistakes , they take care when next time they cook and want to learn and earn a name. So without worrying they do it and the cooking also comes perfect and they get appreciation from everyone.

    Daughters coming from a well to do family and getting married to a less well to do family are not able to adjust because of the comforts they had in their own house and get irritated and not able to adjust with the others. Some forget their past and adjust in that situation and are able to lead a happy life. They take life as it comes and think that it is their fate so why to blame others.

    In present life the parents themselves want to stay separate and enjoy their space, so that the children also can enjoy their space, can become independant and know how to face life. Whenever they want they can keep in touch with their parents and also get their blessings and advices if they are interested

    Don’t worry that your children never listen to you, worry that they are always watching you.
    A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with the same person.
    Relationships are important than life , but it is more important for those relationships to have life in them….
    Every father should remember that one day his
    son will follow his example instead of his advice.
    - Charles F. Kettering
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  2. VaniVyas

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    Re: - A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with same pers

    Viji Mami,

    A very good post and most accurate for the modern generation. IT is 100% true that these days everyone want s their space..
     
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    Re: - A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with same pers

    Nice post vijima, and nice pic you have posted at the end of your post too. It is all about the right perspective, and you are right we girls do have a greater part (though not the solitary part) in making a successful family life.

    Interesting timing too of your thread, since there seems to be a lot of patting on the back of the 'new trends' in another subforum under relshps :)
    Anyway new or old trend, I hope like you posted in your OP - hope ppl succeed.
     
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    Re: - A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with same pers

    @Vani dear glad to get your first fb with a positive message which made my day. Glad to know it is accurate for the modern generation. Thanks dear
     
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    Re: - A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with same pers

    Thanks @Ragini25 dear for your feedback and glad you liked the post. Also glad to know you liked the picture. Thanks for your loving message dear which made my day and inspires me to write more
     
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    Re: - A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with same pers

    Very well said...
     
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    Thanks @shruti
     

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