The women at the office has forgotten her boundaries for whatever reasons. Why are you both doing nothing about it?.. your husband is avoiding when he can and just facing when he can. You are angry but you are thinking of all other things. As you are just flying with the wind with grump faces and thats all, she is going with the wind too and continuing. You both haven't done anything firm or substancial... this is not winter weather that you wait and it will pass away. Be straight, firm and warn her that she WILL face consequences if she continues. Say her its NOT A JOKE and she will be sorry. You can easily make evidence and all, if you actually take the situation serious enuf. ACT.. both of you.