Hi, I have a friend who I have known for 3 years already.We had no fight so far,and we used to discuss spirituality,food,hobbies etc,but not personal stuff.Her daughter is my daughter's best friend.Infact both of them love each other a lot. Problem happened when this frined told me that another lady "complained" about my friend's daughter's bossy nature towards her daughter.Otherwise, my friend's daughter is a damn sweet girl.She never behaves like that.She was furiuos for some days after that happened,that she used to hardly smile around people,saying that how dare that lady tell her how she should discipline her daughter....Then,my daughter started telling me that my friend's daughter had started fighting a lot with her,and also my friend started saying that she was wetting the bed,etc......I had full trust on the girl that even if she fights with my daugter,she wouldn't harm her.I love her too just like my daugter.And also,in this week,she was calling my daughter home a lot of times without her mother's knowldedge,which I was not aware that her mom didnt know. this girl is 5years,and my daughter is 4 years. While all these things started happeneing,I noticed that probably the girl was acting so differnt because she was missing her grandma(who had stayed with them for 2 months,and left few days back).I had also noticed the same attitude when my daugter was missing her dad when he was away for a month for an official visit. So,I was very concerened for my daughter's friend.......Then,I took the courage to tell her mom that same things my daugter was saying,and she seems to be missing her grandma or worried abt smthg else that she needs to find out....aND GUESS waht happened? Yep,she yelled at me like crazy saying as if I had complained about her daughter,she was offended...She repeated the same sentence that she said to the other lady asking me "are u trying to tell me that my daugetr isn't disciplined"..and lot of things.I was so taken-aback.Because I went with the concern,and ALSO kept it so,but she took me the opposite way.......Seriously,I FELT LIKE CRYING.... then,she told about an incidence that happened 3 years back,that apparently I had told her that "your daughter doesnt mix up with others"..I told her that if i have told you that and IF that has hurt you(thought i wudnt have intended to hurt),I am sorry about that... then she went on telling sometihing that my ex-maid told her.That maid works for her now.Itseems the maid told that I had told something bad about this friend.I told her it wasn't true,and asked her if it is right,that she has been believing that maid instead of mine.She said that the maid never tells a lie.it really hurt me when she said that .... No matter what I said,she went on shouting at me.She also put a message accorss to me saying that she doesnt want my daughter and her daughter mingling any more..........I left cooly,but only I cried a lot after reaching home...... How do I deal with this situation? I thought to myself that she is sufferring from BP-Thyroid-Sugar and maybe thats why she burst out at me....else I am ready to frgive her.I dont understand why she thought so wrong about me. I also learnt a lesson that I shouldnt "advice" or show concern like that to a moderate friend.But I couldnt help it when I saw this littel girl in such a bad state,that I was worried for her,her daughter.... Please suggest what relationship I should continue with this friend and what do I do about the 2 best friends,the little girls?