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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by pinkydarling, Mar 11, 2020.

  1. pinkydarling

    pinkydarling Platinum IL'ite

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    Women is helpless..,
    Born nd brought up in some family
    Nd married by some one nd living in some other life.
    While before marriage girl thinks Husband is strength, husband is everything , Husband is more than parents, Husband is everything.. But anyway she is always alone,
    Husband says Go from my home, u don't need to me.
    Then parents said this is not permanent place, Don't come with sadness .
    So where woman will go.......
    She can't tell her worries with no one even parents also..
    In their entire life Father never beated nd shouted her daughter,
    Mother also not scolded anything,
    Entire family members nd relatives never hurt anymore...

    But Y
    Suddenly one man will come
    Nd will beat nd scold like anything..,
    Y In law family will not give more importance to her...
    Then
    Where she will go???
    With whom she will tell???
     
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  2. ProudIndian

    ProudIndian Gold IL'ite

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    Women should take good education, build career like guys, life for herself, never to depend on anyone. Be strong physically mentally financially. No matter how good husband or in laws pretend to be stand on your own feet and don’t be emotional fools. Think million times before planning baby and make sure she has strength to raise baby without any help.
     
  3. Jagjag

    Jagjag New IL'ite

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    Women face many issues at home and in their workplace. Go through stress every time. Why should women stress all the time??? No need, be bold...leave those stress and hardships behind, let bygones be bygones. Occupy yourself in something you like, try to stand in your own feet.
    It's your life, you're the decision-maker.:)
     
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  4. shravs3

    shravs3 IL Hall of Fame

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    1.Woman should not surrender herself completely to her man.
    2.She should not allow anyone to treat her as a doormat.
    3.Respect should be two ways.
    4. Woman should never feel inferior to man.
    5. If she is financially independent, she can neither be dependent on her parents nor her husband.
    6. There are many ways (eg. home based business) she can earn money.
    7. She should not blindly trust anyone in her life including her children.
    8. She shouldn’t be so busy taking care of others, that she forgets about herself.
     
  5. deeprapriya

    deeprapriya Gold IL'ite

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    @pinkydarling , exactly my ind voice, am trying to come out of this situation☺️☺️
     
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    Lalithambigai IL Hall of Fame

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    Lovely pointers @shravs3

    If I may, just add,

    9. bring up DS as an equal to DD so he grows up with that inherent feeling of equality and motivate, inspire, if need be incentivise DH to watch Thappad movie at least once. We can all do our bit in driving this change. Yes, we can :)
     
  7. pinkydarling

    pinkydarling Platinum IL'ite

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    Every one shared superb thoughts.. .
    Yes woman need to be very strong, Educative nd independent..
    Then only men will care nd support for them nd give more value to them.
     
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    ashima10 Platinum IL'ite

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    Pinky are you alright ? hope all is good with you?
    how are babies ?
     
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    pinkydarling Platinum IL'ite

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    Hey Haii dear
    Yeah everything is good from my side.
    My babies also doing good.
    Tq for asking me nd remembering me.
    How r u??
    How is u r baby girl??
     
  10. ashima10

    ashima10 Platinum IL'ite

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    All well.

    your post is kind of scary , glad to know all is well at your end.

    Baby girl is going to be 3 in few days....scared because of this stupid virus no celebration as such but yeah looking forward to he birthday.
     
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