Divorce Or Not?

kavya007 · Feb 28, 2020

snehalJoshi said: ↑

True that he conned me into this marriage (although he says he had no idea about his ED before marriage).
He is a great provider and a great father. I can never deny the fact that he is the BEST father my kids would get.
I want him to suffer. He took away my happiness giving me a celibacy life. I know, if I leave him , without a family he will suffer majorly. However, the question is , without him, my kids will miss having a father. I will not get re-married only because i do not want to risk how their step-father would treat them (it is a risk and i dont want to take that risk).
Open marriage is a good option but my values stop me from even thinking about it. I won't be able to live with myself if I have an affair or any relationship with someone while I am married.
So what option do I have? Just to forgive him and try to divert my attention? I will NEVER forgive him. I try to divert my attention to something else, most of the times I am successful but sometimes I CRY.

I am trapped.
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Ahha I read your old posts to understand the issues in your marriage. Sorry girl you are going to continue to suffer with this attitude. Yes, he has ED. Unfortunately it is a medical issue he was not aware of of. Then somehow you had kids as well. Take responsibility for your happiness and take a decision either to make peace in your marriage or walk out and find your happiness with someone else. Sometimes it is karma we get stuck with the wrong person in life.

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