Tips/strategies To Reduce Mil Visits To Usa

Needtobestrong · Feb 5, 2020

coolcucumber said: ↑

I have tried to be nice to her when she came here. But she slowly poisons my husband every day saying I am not a good match for him. She had problems with me even before our marriage. But since my husband and I liked each other, we got married despite her not liking it very much. Since the very beginning, both my MIL and FIL are trying their best to create problems between us. I have talked to my husband many times, he understands me when they are not here. But when they come and stay here for a long time, his mind changes. He becomes like their puppy.
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Oh...I can understand why you hate their visits so much...
You need to make your husband realise their mistakes...how can he be okay with his own parents telling him to hit his wife?
He needs to support you if he wants his parents to stay with you guys even if temporarily...
Anyway going for job and being financially independent is still a very good idea in this situation...

satchitananda · Feb 5, 2020

Going to work should be on your priority list now. It will keep you away from them while helping you build up your own finances. Financial is always important and in such a situation it is absolute essential.

Vedhavalli · Feb 6, 2020

You can't totally avoid them if your husband wants them.
Don't cook when mil cooks, enjoy the food say. 'mom, thank you, daily I come worn out thank God you make delicious food' with sarcasm.
Act as a good DIL in front of DH.
Don't talk don't engage in plans for outing or lunch or dinner.
Prepare yourself professionally.
Make sure to go on date with DH alone.
Just don't talk to them when you're alone.
Many parents/in-laws get very bored in 6 months stay. Eventually they will get bored. Don't worry. Won't keep coming
Keep cool make her tensed.