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Relationship Hijack And Banter - 3

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Nov 20, 2019.

  1. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    That's the idea. Reducing the hijack of other threads when we just have to say something that cannot be left unsaid. : )


    Now we have another variety of "eggs" ... ones to swear on ... : )

    The problem with trying to behave is that then we wouldn't be who we are.... and a royal shame that'd be. Threads come, threads go... it is the people who count. As long as they don't go away... all is well and all is worth it.
     
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    Bringing a child into an abusive marriage itself is child abuse.
    How can having a child and having that child in a bad marriage not related?
     
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    It is related.
    Women give all kinds of excuses when they don't want to leave an abusive marriage.
     
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    Shouldn't this thread be called rehib
     
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    And not just one child , but a second one as well. I just think its incredibly selfish. I just can't wrap my head around the choices some women make.
     
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    I think the reason is her motherly need (having kids) over take her need for a happy home with no abuse. Its hard to find logic.

    Many women stay married because they love the institution of marriage than their husband and tolerate it for maintaining 'married tag' and dont like ' divorce tag'. Its sad but thats the reality
     
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    There is a friend (special needs mom)like me in the same place I live.
    She has faced physical abuse from the beginning of marriage.
    She has 1 kid
    She used to call me and cry when ever he used to beat her. He spits on her. She was working in I T . H4 ead .
    I used to tell her to call 911 every time she spoke with you. Asked her not to have 2nd kid.
    She was pissed at me for my 911 advice, blocked me.
    Now we are not in contact with each other.
    Just bumped into her last week In Costco. She told me she got H1 Visa now from her employer. She has a good it job.
    And personal issues are the same.i didn't ask for details.
    I even saw her husband.
    Guess each women's tolerance levels are different. It's their life
     
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