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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by adisum, Mar 18, 2019.

  1. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    :hello:Quite an analysis at that. Yes it is huge.
    2. The antithesis could ethatenemy is enemy my friend.
    Thanks and Regards.
    God neither loves nor hate any of His creations.
     
  2. adisum

    adisum Gold IL'ite

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    Have I not tried ever? Have i not tried to extend my loving and caring side to her? I am respectful towards her till today also. I am calling her "MA" and it is itself a very respectful relation designation. In return of this, she is treating me ridiculously as if i am a maid and her son should not talk to me, should not sit with me because thats makes her jealous and insecure.

    About kicking her out- that cannot be considered as a solution, I have never even imagined that. Its her home before me.I came here more than 25 years later than her. I have no right to kick her out that too in a age where she needs the support of the family the most. Thats her choice if she wants to be arrogant in this matter, but me and my DH are always taking silent care of her.
     
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    My question is again the same. Do you think I haven't tried? How many years should I try ? 5 ? 10? 20? or whole life ? When Will I be able to start my family. Leaving the ego is also a 2 way process my dear. Meaningful communication ? I can laugh at this.

    Why do you think a son has started moving away from his mother ? He has tried to do meaningful conversations a 100 times in last 1 and half year. and Now he is also tired of that because her mom knows only one thing that she is perfect and fighting is the only action needs to be taken in every communication.
     
  4. adisum

    adisum Gold IL'ite

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    She won't come with us for a sitting. and my city do not provide such services that I can call a psychiatrist at home.
     
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    adisum Gold IL'ite

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    I am sorry, I didn't get what you are trying to say Sir. Can you please explain ? :)
     
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  6. Thyagarajan

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    My response quoted by you is in response to fb of
    @Laks09 at #143
    Regards.
    God provides ordeals to strengthen.
     
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    I assume you are talking about generally loving her as a human being not about changing the orientation? :BangHead:
     
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    even this is not possible. no one is a saint
     
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    That was a joke intended for @Amica. You have misunderstood.
     
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    Laks09 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    I didn't realize this was in response to what I said.
    Did you mean to say - The antithesis could mean that the enemy of my enemy is my friend? I didn't understand the above sentence either and thought it was a typo. Please elaborate.

    I love your last liner, btw. I just noticed it in your other posts too. The line that wraps up the post. I like that style.
     
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