How To Be Positive?

The best way to tackle this is to arrange for a surprise visit of your parents and sisters or and brothers, so that their arrival coincides with the arrival of your in laws. I suggest this simple technique presuming your in laws and your parents are all in same country.
God bless all science laws including in laws.

 

How to Stay Positive: 11 Smart Habits

1. Find the optimistic viewpoint in a negative situation.
2. Cultivate and live in a positive environment.
3. Go slowly.
4. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill.
5. Don't let vague fears hold you back from doing what you want.
6. Add value and positivity to someone else's life.
7. Exercise regularly and eat and sleep well.

 

Salute to you. .you do want to take care of them.
I don't understand what are you scared about??

 

Never ever allow that feeling. Stand up for yourself girl. That's why God gave 2 feet

 

As this is about PILs visit, just relax and be yourself. No need to change who you are for anyone. Like to see positive in everything. Do whatever you usually do, behave normal and be open minded. Always remember they are your PILs not parents. So keep that respectable distance. Try to see positives in them. If you dont like anything, dont take it your heart. Involve your dh to task care of them. If they do something good, For example a tasty dish by MIL, appreciate it. No need to over do anything, just go with the flow. Have your own me time and space, take care of your self well. Be happy and pleasant like usual. Sleep well,get rid of all these tensions out of your kind....relax. you will be alright.

Remember also, they belong to an old generation. They want to be acknowledged and respected. Give space.Find good things and appreciate it. Respect and value them . But they are your guests and you are the boss of your house. If they are good, they will soon realize your value and will be happy. You are already positive, that's why you are thinking about making their visit a good one. Kudos to your attitude

 

Just always think what all good ur inlaws did to u....
how good ur husband is ( how good ur in laws brought up is).
Call them and ask them to purchase some dress for u( gifts always makes happy)
Always think What are + of ur in laws house when compare to ur parents house.
Don't open ur mouth unnecessarily...Dont involve in any of the trip let the son and parents do it.
Don't join for the local trip and stress urself..let they go out and u enjoy ur me time.
Finally tell ur husband not to hurt u in any situation .

 

The previous response of mine is in the nature of a quick fix.
2. It must have ere now known to you likes & disslikes of husband’s clan it could be taste it could be food it could be gifts, music. These are broad outline and along these lines do some surprise offer which might satisfy their ego.
3. Make them eat full stomach every time that would induce sleep in them reducing their time to observe there perspective of negatives in you or your arrangements and organisation.
4. Hold your views and be receptive to their ideas instead of trying to hold on to your views and getting exhausted besides altercation.
5. Ensure central heating system right ambience and temperature all the time at home.
6. Keeps CHOclates toffees handy, to surprise in case they come with grand children through your sister.
7. But beware these may tend your in laws to like you & your place and further lead to stretch their stay. Watch your tone and if it is already harsh better then maintain and attempt whispering tone to all of their clan.

Thanks and Regards.

God help DILS in their commotion and confusion and especially when confront mil fil & Sil.

 

It must be optimal view point in any given situation . But new situations or situations to which one is not exposed bound to confuse and in that case you must evolve methods to dodge without hurting any one and learn to say neither yes nor No.
2. if you begin exercise regime noe after their arrival, it might have repercussions in the form of tiredness or fatigue that would make sleep embrace you at wrong times.
3. But avoid indulging in suspicion but be circumspect .
All the best before, during & after arrival of your guest. I am sure you would welcome them with some halwa and or kheer.
God generates in DIL s creative ideas upon new arrivals.