How To Encourage Kid For Stage

Why?

You are not encouraging her. To encourage means to give support, confidence or hope. You are pushing your dreams on a 5 year old. You are putting on her the immense and totally avoidable burden of not meeting parent's expectations.

Stop showing her videos. Stop bugging her about it. If school activity requires each child or a group to present something in front of the class, help her prepare. Over the next twelve school years, there will be many opportunities to get over any stage fear.

You have written about her in other posts. She is a charming child with a delightful sense of humor. Let her be. Find her positives and appreciate them. If she is simply not cut out for stage performance kind of activity, so be it. She will learn how to talk or present in front of a group of people as that skill is often needed in school and life. Performing on stage otherwise is something some children or people do as a hobby, passion.

Children are very sensitive to what their parents say, want and praise. You have significant damage control to do after showing her all those videos. Those would have chipped away at her self-confidence and the security of unconditional parental love.
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