How Common Is Lying. Please Advise.

I wish happiness for both your wife and you.

 

I would advice u to tell about STD as early as possible, preferably second date . It's not correct to hide medical information till after someone has feelings for u. That person may be already blinded by their feelings and take wrong decision to be with u . It is your responsibility to make sure the other person takes decision with a neutral frame of mind.you may think it's harmless or inconsequential.but other person may not have same perspective.

Wish u all the best for your new life.

 

Good Suggestion madam, But it seems finding a good counselor looks to be a difficult task. Many are only lip service.

 

That's true. You may go through references of family doctor or any person who has used their services. Ultimately, it is a trial and error process!

 

To all people who is asking him to grow up, could you spare him a break?

The guy is mature enough to acknowledge her realtionships before marriage, all he is asking is a honest talk. The wife is the immature one who wont own up and making a duvet of lies.

To the OP, tell her that truth is the only thing you care about and whatever it may be. Let her know that she is pissing you off with her obvious cover ups. I hope she gets the message and eventually understand . Good luck .

 

That's true. I know this is an old post now, but just to add, not having honest talks or hiding/lying about things brings in trust issues in the relationship which is not good for long term too. Have been through it personally.

 

I have not read all the replies. Women lie. Men also lie. Sometimes for no apparent reason. Choose to ignore the small ones. That's the only way to survive a lying spouse. Also a lot of people I meet lie. I am also amazed to see the confidence with which they lie.

 

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