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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Sep 17, 2018.

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  1. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    :yikes: I will say a silent prayer for thread. : ) Last time it got closed after some comment about 'mother routinely feeding married adult son in mouth is disgusting'

    :roflmao:
     
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    SinghManisha Platinum IL'ite

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    Sorry I did not know that ! Why is maa ke haath ka khana or maa ke haath se khana such a deal breaker here?
     
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    Kya yaar! I couldn't even make tea. Not sure how to cook rice/dal in cooker. Dearest DH had to show me.
     
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    ;) ;)
     
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    ragnarok Senior IL'ite

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    Laks, I meant when you get busy in real, then you do get busy. So, I said take it easy when that happens, since you sounded upset about the lack of time/busy schedule. That's all there was to it. No commentary about this place was implied in that post.
    Cheers.
     
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    Laks09 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Back in the day, when I forgot, I got told to write things down, making a list, putting reminders on post its etc etc(Didn't have cell phones waaay back when we were newly married).
    Now, DH will say "It's ok babes, I'll remember for you". My DH has come back home after getting halfway to the airport to bring back keys because I forgot to take key while leaving home to pick kids. Could have said deal with it but didn't. He has driven like a zombie to bring my OCI card forgotten at home and found only during check in - could have said your problem, don't go to see your parents or go tomorrow but didn't. He has come back from flights at 12.00 AM and gone out to get gas at 5.00 AM because I forgot to fill the night before. He has run to the nearest ATM countless times because I use up cash in my purse and his wallet and forget to tell him. When it's time to tip the Valet, there's no cash anywhere. He's never lost his temper or told me to deal with it after those tips back in the newlywed days!
    I empathize with forgetful people because I forget, all the time.

    Now, if someone posted something here, way back, I remember that very well. I did up that post, throw it in their face and say hey, you said this ;)
     
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    Transformational admission. :banana: Wait, does this realisation and response need so much details? :facepalm:
     
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    I didn't understand what happened at first. Then going back to where it started, one could see when memes and euphemisms are not accessible to some, and they run off with the literal, and get committed to a stand, confusion ensues. And besides, like a parlour game called "rumour", each time the concept (of "mother routinely feeding married adult son in mouth") is commented upon, qualifier-words like routinely, married, and adult get chopped off.... and more mayhem happens.
     
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    Harmless but painful. I will take Uber.
     
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    the innocence is cute to see :relaxed: (in a very good way I meant , like the pure heart innocence of kids)
     
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