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Is Happiness The Most Important Thing In Your Marriage?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by DavenaRosalie, Jul 29, 2018.

  1. BerryPine

    BerryPine Gold IL'ite

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    Happiness is the essence of life. Marriage is a part of life and the level of importance depends of the degree of mending or creating happiness.
     
  2. Amulet

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    Thank you BerryP. Your post separates Happiness and Marriage -- implicitly pointing out that people dont necessarily need a Marriage to be happy. Or, one might have a marriage, but not depend on it for happiness. The degree of preparedness with some plan-B when the marriage does not deliver happiness is a good idea.
     
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    Happiness and Marriage are two different parameters.

    Marriage is a legal union, if one put the purpose of marriage as to deliver happiness that would definitely bring disappointment. 'You discover your happiness,get married enhance your happiness and be there for each other" is what I believe. ^_^

    For me happiness is the by-product of a healthy marriage. If one thinks marriage delivers happiness and chase for it,that eventually could bring dissolution.
     
  4. DavenaRosalie

    DavenaRosalie Silver IL'ite

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    Yes, marriage is not just all about love or happiness. For everyone to be happy could be the goal, and love is just a vehicle to achieve it. Along the road, blockades (trials, boredom, temptation, missed values, disagreements, etc) are waiting to stop you. Be prepared!
     

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