Singapore Or Australia

poojaagar · Mar 29, 2018

Hello friends,

Iam from singapore and we lived in sg for more than 10 years and i have a 8 year old child.
Recently we got aussie pr and moved into australia. But only me and my child fully moved now, later the plan is my hubby will move bcos he still has job there. I have quit mine and moved to have a better life. but we still have commitments in spore and he has to be there for next few years.

Now i dont know whether we can be there in spore and come back here to australia later. He actually dont like it in spore but due to financial commitments he has to be there. Now i feel very difficult to be alone and manage my child and look for job here in aussie.
So we think to move back and be there until he moves here, so we can be as family together.

I know in a way we have made a hasty decision as we moved here for 6 months, as we have leased only for 6 months house and thinking to go back. But only good thing is we have started all official things in aussie so even if we go back things are still there if we come back.
Now my query is, is it right to go back to spore or is it better to stay in aussie alone without my hubby until he joins us after settling things in spore?

Pls advise..this dilemma is killing me..

Also, i feel education will be better in spore compared to aussie for my child for the primary years..thats is another reason iam willing to go back..

Shanvy · Mar 29, 2018

@SBRose

poojaagar · Mar 29, 2018

hi did u reply me

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@SBRose
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Shanvy · Mar 29, 2018

yes i tagged someone who maybe able to hep you

poojaagar · Mar 30, 2018

Shanvy said: ↑

yes i tagged someone who maybe able to hep you
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yes saw that thank you but that didnt answer my query dear..im looking forward to more responses..please help me folks..

ashneys · Mar 30, 2018

I noticed a "if" we come back, so the first thing for you to do is decide whether you really want to move n live in Australia.
Or are you just considering it because your hubby doesn't like Spore?

Make a pros n cons list as well with both Australia n Singapore. N pick based on your Priority.

If your priority is singapore, leave right away n make the life better there.

If you plan to settle in Aus,
Education, it's better to just continue his education there as it will be easier n faster for him to adapt as he moves to higher classes.

Get a job in Aus, enroll the kid in day care / or other classes after his school, so financially you both can settle things in spore n hubby can move in a lot faster.

If you aren't able to get a new job in Aus with child, will you get work in spore ? Is it possible to manage your child in spore with work ?

If yes, then either you take a job in spore n send him to Aus to start settling first.

Or both of you work side by side to finish the financial obligation faster - then slowly plan the Aus migration later on if you still feel like it.

It seriously comes down to what you really want n which option can get you there better n faster, more than half the times, these journeys tend to get a lot more challenging. So don't get scared of the challenges, Spore or Aus, go for what you really want.

kasturiradhika · Apr 4, 2018

Only one thing I want to tell you is at this age (you both are young)it’s better to stay together .You know Singapore got so many attractions for men.So your family life is most important.Think 100s of times before taking a decision.

nidhi79 · Apr 27, 2018

Hi...I agree with kasturi.
I have same situation...My husband is in Dubai.
Pooja u can contact me. I m in australia .

nidhi79 · Apr 27, 2018

poojaagar said: ↑

Hello friends,

Iam from singapore and we lived in sg for more than 10 years and i have a 8 year old child.
Recently we got aussie pr and moved into australia. But only me and my child fully moved now, later the plan is my hubby will move bcos he still has job there. I have quit mine and moved to have a better life. but we still have commitments in spore and he has to be there for next few years.

Now i dont know whether we can be there in spore and come back here to australia later. He actually dont like it in spore but due to financial commitments he has to be there. Now i feel very difficult to be alone and manage my child and look for job here in aussie.
So we think to move back and be there until he moves here, so we can be as family together.

I know in a way we have made a hasty decision as we moved here for 6 months, as we have leased only for 6 months house and thinking to go back. But only good thing is we have started all official things in aussie so even if we go back things are still there if we come back.
Now my query is, is it right to go back to spore or is it better to stay in aussie alone without my hubby until he joins us after settling things in spore?

Pls advise..this dilemma is killing me..

Also, i feel education will be better in spore compared to aussie for my child for the primary years..thats is another reason iam willing to go back..
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Hi pooja ...I just move to australia. U can contact me .