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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Penelope, Feb 13, 2018.

  1. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    First you ask is our culture to blame, then, you say such forum can be dangerous.

    Glad we could help against all those odds.
     
  2. Penelope

    Penelope Bronze IL'ite

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    Did not mean to offend. I appreciate the help.
     
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    peddadas Platinum IL'ite

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    OP,

    No its not Normal, I can bet no one can do all the household chores while working and studying, everyone will be good at something so please try to divide the work.

    Coming to attitude, I am not sure how that can be changed but I can say that it is not the right attitude. Any person should be treated with respect, this looks like taking things for granted and there should be a limit for expectations. Please set right expectations, he should definitely understand the difference between being rude, being responsible and showing patience. Try to draw a line somewhere..

    Good luck!

    --PS
     
  4. vaas

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    Dont know why, but i feel this as a troll post.
    Indian man behaving like this with americam woman and american woman taking all this crap from husband.... hard to believe..

    If its genuine post, no his behaviour is not normal. Teach him a lesson
     
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    ChennaiExpress IL Hall of Fame

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    People let emotions get in the way of common sense in relationships.

    Let me assure you these horrible things happen to even the "most qualified" person in a marriage, i.e. uneducated, poor-family background husband will abuse educated, beautiful wife from rich-family background.
     
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    Naari Platinum IL'ite

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    Agree, kept away from responding after reading the shoe part, as I couldn’t believe that crap one second.

    And now OP’s saying “online forums can be dangerous & there’s only so much one can post here.. blah blah” , sounds like “got ya” to me.. I would urge ILs friends to keep away from responding such extreme posts, help but ask a question or two that may reveal the truth.
     
    Last edited: Feb 18, 2018

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