Intimacy - Loss And Cure, Your Experiences And Suggestions

What do you think of this article, Why Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore? - Reclaiming Intimacy, Modesty, and Sexuality

 

If married people can do this .....

 

Solution is to each his own, I guess.

If you wanna get married pray to God.

If you wanna have live in, pray to God.

If you wanna have natural insemination, pray to God.


We don't have answers consciously and I think we have to pray to God who will show answers within us.

 

I read one or two of those blog posts.

Seems the intimacy between two strangers who just met and probably won't meet again is more natural than the "intimacy" lot of marrieds have (telling from experience).

having sex without any type of heart for the other person is a sin, married or not. The people in natural insemination seem to have some sort of heart ... hope you understand what I am saying.

 

I also felt that Intimacy declines as the marriage grows older, not only felt but come to know from other peoples i.e relatives, friends , spouse of husband's friends. I dont think Its about frequency or quality of Intimacy , it may be lack of variety in Intimacy. Some reasons are feasible like responsibility, pregnency, delivery, baby etc. still sharp decline is not acceptable. What we lack is proper & frank communication not only with spouse but also with close peoples like sisters of same age, friends , husbands friends wife etc. We get out of this situation after a long struggle.
One more thing is that , why we people dont accept & express that we also needs intimacy badly like husbands.
Need to tell more , depends upon responses n opinion.

 

I liked this how maturely everyone is talking about such sensitive topic which we cannot even discuss with our close ones.

 

Its easy to discuss here in this platform but difficult with DH

 

This site is not so popular as fb or twitter that may be the reason for everyone being so open. Also the male members are too mature here that they either do not get involved or take participate in the discussion. Instead of making any nonsense that mostly on other sites some may have with such topics.