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Do All Men Cheat If Given An Oppurtunity?

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  1. BiriyaniAroma

    BiriyaniAroma Silver IL'ite

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    Happened to watch the above 5 minutes video. There are two diametrically opposite views, discussed in that.

    please listen to both the views: it is hardly 5 minutes. Then come here and say which view you believe in, About Men.

    If there is a guarantee that his wife will never come to know about it; and there is also the guarantee that after the instance of cheating there is not much emotional strings attached to it.

    Under there circumstances, all married Men cheat. That is the debate.
     
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    BiriyaniAroma Silver IL'ite

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    To begin with what I think personally about it.

    It is not true.

    All men do not cheat even if given the ideal opportunity. There are men who value monogamy ; who value the sentiments of their wives and will continue to be monogamous throughout their lives even under the most vulnerable opportunity.
     
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    BiriyaniAroma Silver IL'ite

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    What do you guys think of it?
     
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    ashneys Platinum IL'ite

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    Personally, I don't think that is true.

    It is really unfortunate that men get generalised in the bad guy / immoral / cheater category so fast. They share the same human emotions n values that we do too.

    Just like there are women who are sincerely monogamous, there are men like that too.

    N similarly, there are many women who will cheat if an opportunity presents itself, n even more so if her hubby won't ever find, n no strings attached.
     
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    ZenSojourner Silver IL'ite

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    Definitely not true. I think all men - or women for that matter - could be TEMPTED.

    But I know for sure that not everyone will give in to such temptation.

    However I think it is certainly also true that many people who choose to cheat will use the EXCUSE of "everyone does it" to excuse their own bad behavior.
     
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    Naari Platinum IL'ite

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    Seeing that video, I do believe that not all men are Steve. It's like saying all men lack integrity, which can't be correct. There are some men who will stay loyal to their wives no matter what.
     
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    First of all the way he is saying I am man , you are a girl...uhh a woman, how do you know what men think . I find it so regressive . Appalling to see how in modern times men like him have a clear distinction and set prejudices against men and women . From his hand and body movements , It feels like he is taking immense pride in saying that and in his head all men cheat . And can we imagine a woman going public and saying all woman cheat ? Never heard of that and I would wonder what backslash a woman would receive if she ever does that .

    As for cheating , both men and women may and may not cheat . It's an individual preference and nothing to do with being a man or a woman .
     
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    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    Mostly men are bound to cheat more than women
    But all men don't cheat
     
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    Nonya Platinum IL'ite

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    "Given" an opportunity?
    Given? And not sought and won?
    If an opportunity is too easy, it is often regarded with suspicion.
    At least by the well-informed.
    The well-informed are also beset with the fear of STD's.
     
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    Answering to the question, I frankly feel NOT all men would cheat even if it is super secretive or non clingy relationship.
     

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